First of all, thank you for being so, so very excited for us – we can feel your love from wherever you are! However, please bear with us over the next several weeks. Though we have sent our Save-the-Dates, there are many, many details that are still to be determined…one of which is travel arrangements. We completely understand that since this wonderful occasion will require travel and time on your behalf, you would likely prefer to make those plans sooner rather than later – and trust me when I say that we are fervently working to figure out all of the travel specifics as soon as possible. Our main priority was to announce the date and location so that ya’ll (that’s Charleston for you!) could literally save the date and begin to consider what arrangements would have to be made. Our next focus was to sort through caterers and bakers in order to get those booked ASAP…with October being such a busy wedding time in Charleston, it was necessary that we chose our main vendors immediately. And, now that that’s done as well, we can turn our attention back to all of you, as we continue to flesh out what our wedding weekend will look like.

For now, here are the basic need-to-knows:

• Charleston is the closest airport, and is about a 30 minute drive from Folly Beach
• Please do not yet book any type of lodging – more details regarding overnight accommodations will be provided in the formal invitations
• The ceremony will begin sometime Saturday afternoon
• Guests should plan to arrive no later than noon on Saturday, but are welcome to arrive as early as Friday afternoon
• The first official Wedding event will be a Welcome Dinner on Friday evening – there will be no rehearsal ceremony, and the Welcome Dinner will be for any guests who have arrived in the Charleston area
• Guests are welcome to leave any time between noon on Sunday and 9:00am Monday
• Please feel free to make this trip as short or long as you would like.

So why South Carolina? An out-of-the-country destination was completely out of the question…we didn’t want anyone to have to spend that kind of time or money. For some reason, the Carolina coast just spoke to us as being a simple, yet beautiful setting, that is relatively accessible for our families from the Midwest and East Coast. After exploring a few options throughout North and South Carolina, Folly Beach (and Charleston itself) stood out as the quaint, unique, and cozy place we were looking for.

We understand that our guests may have to travel a bit more than they were expecting, but we hope that you are all looking forward to our little wedding adventure as much as we are – there is truly a lot of love and soul going into the planning of this most joyous occasion! (btw – the pictures you see here are from the 2 oceanfront properties we have rented)

Can’t wait for everyone to see this place in person,
Brett and Kate

Enjoying the planning process so far,
Brett and Kate

We then began a somewhat lengthy conversation about how possible it would be to plan the entire wedding using Groupon offers. While the idea obviously sounds fun, and incredibly cheap, we soon realized that this planning model probably won’t work with the type of event we’re sure to have. Since the primary purpose of Groupon is to offer deals on local services, we would basically plan to have the wedding in a Groupon city…which we’re not. We may not be able to plan using 100% Groupon, but you can bet your budget-conscious behinds we will still be scouring those daily deals for anything that might make our special day be a little lighter on our wallets.

Getting started on this whole planning thing,
Brett and Kate

By the time we had reached the U.S. side of the Falls, the rain had mostly stopped so we were able to park and walk around a bit, snapping a few foggy photos of the Falls and wandering through a holiday market that had been set up by local artists. We started to get hungry, and realizing it was already 1:30 and we were planning to go to the Butterfly Conservatory on the Canadian side before it closed at 3:30, we decided to grab a quick bite and cross the border. After driving around for about 10 minutes and not seeing anywhere we wanted to eat, we headed back to the bridge and resigned to eating at the Butterfly Cafe.

We arrived at the Conservatory, worried that it was actually closed (despite the website saying it was open) since we were only the second car in the entire parking lot. And, as luck would have it, the cafe turned out to be outdoors and therefore definitely closed, forcing us to split a Twix Bar from the gift shop for our lunch. We then hung up our coats, due to the tropical climate in the dome, and headed in to see all of those little things in flight! One loop around the path ended up not taking very long so we began around a second time and stopped at a bench to sit down, waiting patiently for butterflies to land around us so we could get some good pictures. And that’s when and where we became engaged!
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Longwood Gardens

In case you were worried, we ARE still alive…just busy, busy, busy! Kate’s schedule this past quarter took some getting used to, with lots of very long days and late nights full of work…but it seems the hard work has paid off with another term of straight A’s. Over the next, and last, two quarters of the program, though coursework is relatively minimal, our internships take up the time of a full-time job and progress on our thesis becomes critical for graduating on time (in June). So, while the draining schedule isn’t looking to change very much, I’m hoping that the adjustment period is over and I won’t be spending as much time just being plain tired! Speaking of my thesis, one final piece of news is that I just found out that I will be speaking at the 2012 Annual Art Therapy Conference next July in Savannah, Georgia…talk about being excited and nervous at the same time!

Santa's newest reindeer

Brett has been equally swamped, putting in full days of work for his regular job, then just as many (if not more) hours in the evenings and weekends working on freelance projects. Between building a few mobile sites and working on some exciting startups, he’s been having fun learning new tools of his trade and always working on something different (though it’s usually not so fun at 2am).

Peace & Joy

Our holiday season has been in full swing for about a week now, as we left Philly on Friday the 16th to spend a weekend skiing in Killington, Vermont before coming here to Brett’s parents house, where we will stay until December 29th. We both have a bit of work to get done at some point during this break, but we’re definitely looking forward to the next few days of  simply spending time with family and enjoying one another’s company. For now, it’s time to spend the rest of the day baking cookies and playing games

Wishing everyone a very warm and blissful holiday season,
Brett and Kate (& Captain & Basil)

• visited Brett’s dad’s hunting cabin in the Southern Tier  & planted 2 trees
• went to a wine tasting at Deer Run Winery
• toured Conesus Lake via pontoon boat (courtesy of neighbor John)
• helped the kids catch hundreds of fish (or the same fish hundreds of times?)
• hung out with Zack (who we both miss very much!)
• saw the best fireworks show EVER
• Not to forget the puppy – Basil lost his first puppy teeth & had his first swim!

   

We have much more travel coming up this summer, as well of lots of time we’ll be spending outdoors, so be sure to check back for more fun pictures!

Re-finding our adventurous roots,
Brett and Kate

Basil, our sous chef

While Kate was in the midst of finishing up her first year of grad school (yay!), Brett has been REALLY busy with work, and somewhere in between there’s a pup being raised! So far, the transition to dog-owners has been pretty smooth, largely thanks to watching hours of The Dog Whisperer before bringing Basil home, but we are definitely looking forward to the rest of the summer when we’ll have more free time to hang out with and train the little guy.

Celebrating the end of year 1

Kate’s last official day was June 24th, which marked the completion of her first year comprehensive exam (40 hours of writing + 2 hours of oral questioning), with the Spring quarter ending back on June 9th. This 3rd quarter was quite challenging, and even more exhausting than the first 2 (the HOBY seminar right around week 7 didn’t help either). In the end, the hard work and sleepless nights paid off and the year was rounded out with another set of A’s

Working nights sure haven’t been lonely, since Brett has a lot going on as well. In addition to his regular work during the day, he’s gotten involved in a few side projects on the evenings and weekends, keeping him just about as busy as Kate. Brett’s volleyball leagues have been bumped from once to twice a week (the 2nd night Kate plays too), and hopefully many more hours will be spent playing outdoors soon!

Double Duty: reading & cuddling

As for Basil, he sure is growing fast! He’s nearly doubled in size since we got him and is now tall enough to get on the couch (& climb on Captain). Speaking of which, he and Captain are beginning to be friends…well, brothers is more like it, as they’ve started having numerous wrestling matches a day! More pics are sure to come.

Already working on the next post,
Brett and Kate

Monday afternoon we headed toward Gettysburg, PA (a quick 2 hour road trip) to meet and pick up our new puppy Basil. He is a 10 week old Black & Tan Shiba Inu that we purchased from Rodel Shibas, a show quality Shiba breeder. From the moment we saw this cutie, we were hooked.

So far, he has been extremely well behaved, slept through the night, let’s us know when he needs to go out, and wants nothing more than to play with Captain. They are still working out their boundaries but we have high hopes for them being best of friends. He is still getting use to his new collar and the general concept of a walk.  He thinks it’s walk/sit/run/sit.

Kate and I are so happy and excited to welcome this new addition into our hearts and home.

Without further adieu, Basil.

Being trained by a puppy,
Brett and Kate

Basil at 5 weeks old

Whew! The past few months have been extremely busy/overwhelming/exhausting, hence the lack of blogging, and for the first time in way too long I have a few spare minutes – yay!
Papers-
School has been even more intense than the first 2 quarters, thanks in part to 6 class hours of research a week in preparation for starting my thesis in June. Thankfully, the term is coming to a close, with only 2 weeks of class left, & 1 week of finals. Then, the only thing standing between me & a (mostly) free summer of thesis writing will be 2 weeks spent on a Comp Exam (covering the entire 1st year of study).
Projects-
Brett and I are currently back in Chicago for a few days, mostly for work, with a little bit of fun on the side. From Thursday night until Sunday afternoon I will be helping to run a leadership conference for 110ish local high school students, as part of the Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership Organization. Meanwhile, Brett is going into the actual office (what?!) for a few days, then gets to spend some quality time with some of our favoritest people in the world The weekend will conclude with a little BBQ gathering before we head back to Philly and cross this huge project off our to-do list!
Puppy-
The time has come! For anyone who hasn’t talked to us very recently, a few months ago we began the process of getting a puppy and he is finally old enough for us to bring him home & into our life. He is a 9 week old Shiba Inu, who we’ve named Basil, & is sure to make the next few weeks quite interesting! We’ve prepared our house (and ourselves!) as much as possible, but we know there will still be a few sleepless nights…we’re just hoping for a smooth transition for Captain – he’s going to be such a great big brother!

More to come soon – we will certainly be documenting our experience with Basil!
For now, reuniting with the city we love,
Brett and Kate